{"id":112,"date":"2004-09-20T16:07:00","date_gmt":"2004-09-20T16:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.boopidy.com\/aj\/blog\/2004\/09\/20\/the-cold-wind\/"},"modified":"2004-09-20T16:07:00","modified_gmt":"2004-09-20T16:07:00","slug":"the-cold-wind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.boopidy.com\/aj\/blog\/2004\/09\/20\/the-cold-wind\/","title":{"rendered":"The cold wind"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Chicago trip was terrific. We had an awesome time exploring the city (so many beautiful buildings!), enjoying the great weather on the beach, eating lots of Chicago-style pizza, and even checking out the aquarium. And Ray was the perfect host. I think we went there during the best weather of the year &#8212; mid 70s all weekend &#8212; but I&#8217;m going to pretend that that&#8217;s what it&#8217;s always like there :).<\/p>\n<p>Some pictures:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/pict1077.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/pict1077.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"pict1077.jpg\" title=\"pict1077.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/pict1098.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/pict1098.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"pict1098.jpg\" title=\"pict1098.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/pict1137.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/pict1137.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"pict1137.jpg\" title=\"pict1137.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/dscn6834.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/dscn6834.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"dscn6834.jpg\" title=\"dscn6834.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/pict1177.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/pict1177.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"pict1177.jpg\" title=\"pict1177.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/pict1183.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/pict1183.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"pict1183.jpg\" title=\"pict1183.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/pict1194.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"center\" src=\"http:\/\/www.cs.berkeley.edu\/~aj\/lj\/9-20-2004\/thumbnails\/pict1194.jpg\" width=\"122\" height=\"94\" alt=\"pict1194.jpg\" title=\"pict1194.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s concert season again: Paris Combo and Vienna Teng this past week, and then next weekend is the Pixies and Richard Shindell. On a related note, yesterday was horrible: I went all the way to the Fillmore to get tickets for three upcoming shows (The Tragically Hip, Gillian Welch, and Martin Sexton) since the Ticketmaster surcharge came out to a ridiculous $10 for each $25 ticket. The Fillmore&#8217;s box office is hardly ever open&#8230; just a couple of hours on Sunday afternoon, and then only when a show is actually going on. Anyway, traffic was bad and I made a wrong turn, and I finally got there in 45 minutes, at 4:02. Of course, the box office closed at 4pm. So the whole trip was worthless, and now I&#8217;m debating whether to suck up the TM charge, or try to go back next Sunday (and risk having one of the shows sell out). <\/p>\n<p>Anyway, so then I came back home and found out that my laptop&#8217;s Linux partition was totally hosed. This is where I do all my research and stuff. So I freaked out for a while, and I&#8217;m still trying to fix it. On the plus side, it&#8217;s made me boot into Windows a lot more, so I&#8217;ve started recording this song I wrote this summer. It sounds pretty decent so far&#8230; definitely better than my last effort. Also on the plus side, it&#8217;s made me feel slightly less guilty about socializing and playing sports all weekend. <\/p>\n<p>I better stop rambling. <\/p>\n<p>I think a fundamental conflict that a shy or introverted person (I&#8217;m too lazy to figure out which I mean) has is between the feeling that other people don&#8217;t really appreciate what he is worth (and, oh, if only they would!), and the feeling that maybe instead he just isn&#8217;t worth much at all. It would be pretty amazing and educational if we could all see how other people perceive us. It would be a great tool to illustrate our real faults (rather than our perceived ones), and also to dispel unfounded insecurities. This could be done, of course &#8212; all you&#8217;d have to do is get someone to anonymously poll all your friends and acquaintances about you. (I feel like I&#8217;ve talked about this already&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>The current social networks (Friendster, Orkut, etc.), really only allow people to leave named, positive comments. I think I would equally prefer if people could also leave anonymous comments about things that I do wrong or that I could do better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Chicago trip was terrific. We had an awesome time exploring the city (so many beautiful buildings!), enjoying the great weather on the beach, eating lots of Chicago-style pizza, and even checking out the aquarium. 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